Taking a shot in the dark on this site. 43-years old, well-educated, former military and self-employed . I understand this is a sex site, and unfortunately some on here lack respect and communication. I will NOT just meet anyone unless I know we have some type of chemistry. I don't care about race, religion or personal views. You'll have my respect regardless. Now, please do NOT contact me if fall in any of the following categories: 1- looking for a one-night stand. 2- not welling to communicate with honesty 3- do any harsh drugs or excessive use of alcohol Other than that, I'm open to any questions you want to know.