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No Relationship Is Ever A Waste of Time  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10181 posts
7/8/2021 1:39 pm
No Relationship Is Ever A Waste of Time




Throughout our lifetime we have many different types of relationships. Each one teaches us more about ourselves.

We can look at what didn't work & become clear about how we want our next relationship to be.

We can develop new standards as we are more aware of what we will and what we won't accept.

When we start repeating patterns that create arguments, chaos, rejection or abandonment, we can use these lessons to see what we need to change.

When we are in a relationship we can either gain self-respect or lose it depending upon how we allow ourselves to be treated.

Life is a process of beginnings and endings. Whenever a relationship ends, we experience its loss and learn from it.

sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/8/2021 1:45 pm

 Whether it's with family, friends, romantic partners or work colleagues, the depth and strength of relationships are different depending on the individuals with whom we connect.


Luv2bottom4u2 67M  
1875 posts
7/8/2021 2:25 pm

 Most of this is true Except if you don't have self respect you can never get it from someone else. and then if you ever had a bad relationship due to what you have here and get into another one with same traits , you never learned from the first time.


socalhappa1989 35M
20 posts
7/8/2021 2:27 pm

 truth


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
7/8/2021 4:25 pm

 Great post.
The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


DesireU2020 58M
90 posts
7/8/2021 4:28 pm

 So true, If you aren't learning and changing, you aren't paying attention.


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
7/8/2021 4:52 pm

 Sometimes a failed relationship is due to not recognizing what we really want or need and sometimes because of ways our actions or inactions skewed things up. Some of us learn from them but not all the lessons needed. We can all hope we learn fast enough to have good or relationships.
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Looklovesmile42 66M
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7 posts
7/8/2021 5:22 pm

 I am always learning. Thanks for the blog


resant78 45M  
3326 posts
7/8/2021 7:34 pm

 Yep!!! exactly!


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
7/8/2021 9:11 pm

 Any time you learn it is good, even with a broken heart....
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partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/8/2021 9:53 pm

 True that! Very, very true. If only some of these lessons weren’t so darn painful ….
Still. They look so much more palatable in hindsight. 😊


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/9/2021 2:32 am

 You are very right; relationships reveal loads about ourselves.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 3:55 am
    Quoting Luv2bottom4u2:
    Most of this is true Except if you don't have self respect you can never get it from someone else. and then if you ever had a bad relationship due to what you have here and get into another one with same traits , you never learned from the first time.
Self-respect can be impacted by how others treat you. And I agree, learning from each and every relationship is key. Thanks for dropping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 3:56 am

 I thought so too which is why I decided to post it. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 3:56 am

 Thank you. I appreciate you stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 3:57 am
    Quoting DesireU2020:
    So true, If you aren't learning and changing, you aren't paying attention.
And if you aren't learning, you aren't growing Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 3:58 am
    Quoting justskin1:
    Sometimes a failed relationship is due to not recognizing what we really want or need and sometimes because of ways our actions or inactions skewed things up. Some of us learn from them but not all the lessons needed. We can all hope we learn fast enough to have good or relationships.
I agree with your observations. Thanks for stopping by and sharing them


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 3:59 am
    Quoting  :
I learn from each and every experience/encounter. Nice to see you stopping by


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 4:00 am

 When we keeping learning, we keep growing. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 4:00 am

 Thanks for the endorsement!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 4:01 am
    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Any time you learn it is good, even with a broken heart....
Yes, that is very true. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 4:02 am
    Quoting partygald:
    True that! Very, very true. If only some of these lessons weren’t so darn painful ….
    Still. They look so much more palatable in hindsight. 😊
Life, including relationships, isn't easy. We often have a different perspective when we can reflect back. Thanks for stopping by.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 4:04 am
    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    You are very right; relationships reveal loads about ourselves.
Whether or not we want to admit it. Thanks for stopping by.


lickeyzsplit 61M
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1516 posts
7/9/2021 6:15 am

 Like your Blog ! We should all think about this every day before we engage with people in public and in our working lives ... Life Lessons Happy Friday !


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 8:29 am
    Quoting lickeyzsplit:
    Like your Blog ! We should all think about this every day before we engage with people in public and in our working lives ... Life Lessons Happy Friday !
Thank you. I do enjoy posting about a variety of subjects, including ones that will encourage others to step back and ponder. Have a great day and weekend


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
7/9/2021 8:30 am

 This is so very true, as each relationship is different, and we learn from each and everyone of them we have. It truly teaches us what kind of relationships are truly the best ones, and which aren't. And the ones we want to have in our lives.

I hope your Friday is a wonderful start to your weekend..
Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
7/9/2021 10:00 am

 So very true!!! I agree!!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 3:19 pm
    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    This is so very true, as each relationship is different, and we learn from each and everyone of them we have. It truly teaches us what kind of relationships are truly the best ones, and which aren't. And the ones we want to have in our lives.

    I hope your Friday is a wonderful start to your weekend..
Often, when a relationship ends, people will say it was a waste of time. I don’t know if that’s bitterness or disappointment. Since there are so many different types of relationships, as you say, each one is different. I know I learn something from each one. Hope you have a great weekend 😊


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
7/9/2021 3:19 pm

 Thanks for stopping by and adding your confirmation 😊


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