I'm curious. I'm not otherwise encumbered. I have cash to spend from time to time. I just cut my ponytail off and sent it to 'Locks of Love', and I'd rather have hair to part before I commit that part of myself to pixels. I'm interested in the whole concept of 'cyber-sex' right now. I'm quite pleased with the availability of such wonderful exhibitionists in the vid-chat area, but I'm not really sure of how the 'interaction' would work yet (haven't actually 'done' cybersex yet--at least not 'with' someone). I added in a few other 'for' checkboxes, as I was browsing about, and thought, "why not?" on a number of items I find titillating but not requirements for my own satisfaction, for instance, B&D (girls in ropes are pretty hot, though I'm probably not 'dom' enough for some who need to feel like they are being punished). I would spank you (and rather enthusiastically, now that I've seen how hot some of you get spanking yourselves). I don't think I'd draw blood. I'd drip wax though. I enjoy oral pleasure in both directions, and would truly enjoy 69 with someone who likes to deep throat. I like a clean pussy (doesn't have to be shaved, but at least trimmed). I'll reciprocate. I don't think I'd be doing the oral bit until I was in a 'safe' situation (monogamy). I'm pretty good with my fingers, though (guitarist/typist/keyboard player), so I'd likely be able to 'play' you. I'm not very into anal penetration of women. I do like having my prostate massaged with a toy (by a woman), but it's not a requirement, or even something that I'd think to do myself very often. I'm 'clean' (no STDs). I'd likely practice very 'safe' sex. I've no real death-wish going on, and there's some freaky shit out there. I do have a variety of HPV (plantar's wart), but I don't think that's *the one* of the 90+ strains that are the cervical cancer causing variety. It's going away, btw (my spirit guide told me a neat herbal treatment, and it's working). Update on that: it's working so well, I'm working on a book. Perality wise, I'm (in my own mind, of course) an amalgam of Archibald Tuttle, The Sundance , The Dread Pirate Roberts, and Caractacus Pott (oh, and *both* cops from 'Dark City').

My Ideal Person This all applies to a 'local' person, not cyber (local would mean you'd probably be seeing me in other contexts):

Someone who is self-directed, self-expressive, and has good taste would be a decent start.

I'm rather open in what I find attractive. I focus on smiling eyes and full voices.

That said, I've got preferences. I tend to like women who are lighter, taller, and busier. I'd like someone to dance with. I'd like someone to sing with (I love singing harmonies, even if I'm not stage-worthy).

I really like well-informed individuals. Twain pointed out that "Anyone who doesn't read the news is uninformed, and anyone who does is misinformed." I read a lot of news and read between the lines a lot. I'm not a conspiracy theory nut-job, but I see pretty definite proof that the US media is not telling us what they know. If you don't read foreign sources, I'll likely freak the hell out of you drinking coffee in the morning.

I like foreigners. I've not run into anyone from another culture yet who I didn't find absolutely fascinating (men and women, though I only was attracted to the women).

I like people who pay attention to their bodies. I've recently been upgrading mine. If you are a sugar-holic, or a carb-holic, or a couch potato, you won't like me much. If you have issues with garlic, you won't like me when I'm sick.

If you are serious about religion, you probably won't like me (unless you are zazen, then you'll love me). If you aren't familiar with zen, I'll probably freak you out.

She's probably twenty years younger than me. Women my age often have some very peculiar attitudes, having been taught how to be 'Betty Crocker' and then being given the (self-inflicted) task of being 'Superwoman'. People my age generally have 'settled', too, while I'm in a constant state of renewal/recreation.

Not only that, but I think my 'ideal' woman would be just as hot and sexy as described above, and would also want to bear my child (not done one of them yet). I don't think most women my age can do that.

She'd have to not be freaked out by bugs.