So, after being on this site for years I would like to just share some suggestions with some of you. Take it or leave it, these are just some of my observations. First, the photos are sometimes an embarrassment for the per posting them. Do yourself a favor. Look closely at your profile pictures. Are they something like this: a. A close up of your dick with ugly boxer shorts hanging down around dirty white socks (Or worse yet black socks) and sneakers. a1. Speaking of dicks, if you have a really ugly one, please keep it to yourself. If you are not sure of what consists of an ugly dick, send me a picture before you post it and I will let you know. The only thing worse is to post a picture of an ugly spread open ass hole that looks like it was massaged with a food processor. b. A photo of you or your dick showing a background that could only do justice to a slob or a per from the hoarder show. Unmade beds, dirty sheets, piles of clothes and trash, drawers hanging out, etc. Not the kind of place I would ever want to find myself at. If your photo looks like CSI took it at a crime scene, it is probably not going to do much for anyone. c. Believe it or not, I am not really that interested in a picture of you holding a fish, or a gun, or standing behind a Corvette or a Harley which does not mean much to me. If you are wearing a fanny pack, I am done. If you have on a wife beater tee shirt and a dirty ball cap, that is pretty much a sign to me of "stay away". d. If you have 36 photos in your profile that all appear to be taken from the same camera on speed shoot over a 10 second period of time, that is not really going to impress me. No matter how much you show the same picture over and over, it is not going to help determine if you are anything more than a life support system for a cock. e. If your pictures are all taken in the bathroom with a cell phone, or your car, that probably answers the married thing (See below). That must be the only room you have where you can lock the door and get naked with out the wife freaking. f. A photo that is so perfect it either came right out of a new photo frame from Target or from one of the online photo services. You may not know this, but there is software that can search for an identical photo online. I have busted a couple of you. Regarding your profile or any other written things. I have only two words: SPELL CHECK. Oh, and I like a combination of small letters and caps. Shows me that you are using something besides a cell phone to type on. Now regarding the married thing. This is what I have figured out. If you are married and you say so, good for you. Thank you for being honest. However, are you really ever truly interested in meeting, or able to? Be honest about that also. If you put down "Prefer not to say". I guess that just means you are married. And then I figure about 90% of those that say single are just lying. If you say you are single but are looking for daytime meetings, you are married. If you are a standard member, that either proves you are married, or a cheap ass bastard which is even worse. Bottom line, is this. If you are really truly able to actually get out of the house away from your PC which is some cases must be the only sex partner some of you have ever had, that is what I am interested in. I am not looking to spend hours trying to help talk you on your way to having an orgasm all over your key board. I go out all the time for real and I am willing to meet up with almost anyone (Except you with the fanny pack) at a club or bar when I am going out. I will no longer make special arrangements to meet anywhere with someone I have not already met. I spend a lot of time making myself sexy and classy. To get all dressed and ready to go somewhere to meet you, and have you not show because you did just cum all over your keyboard and probably never intended to leave the comfort of windows 7 sucks. Worse case, you come out, have a drink (and maybe buy me one) and we hate each other and you go back home to your keyboard. Most of the clubs I go to have other choices in g anyway, so even if you don't like me, you might find someone you do like. Now for the bright side. I am willing to help. Do you need some real photos taken? I will be glad to use a professional digital camera with some thought out backgrounds and take some nice shots for you and then use some good software to make them perfect for posting. I will do this after we meet (See above) at a club or bar and I have figured out you are real. Also for those of you that are wanting to explore your "gurl" side, I am also willing to help. I have done this for several g who are now out and about. I will be glad (Again after a public meeting) to come over to your home or a hotel and dress you up and help with make up and stuff. I have tons of extra stuff including wigs. I will even take you shopping in boy mode to some places that know me and have no problem with boys trying on dresses. It can actually be a lot of fun in the stores I go to. Nothing like a hot sales girl helping to pull a tight fitting dress down over a semi-hard cock. So if you are real and you do actually want to come out, let me know. I am game. Now back to my normal profile I am a part time cross-dresser. I pride myself in dressing sexy and elegant. I take my time in making myself look as sexy and decadent as possible. I spend a lot of money on clothing and things, and act and expect to be treated with class. I enjoy going to clubs here and in LV. I would love to meet anyone at a local club. I am not really interested in daytime meetings, or quick jaunts to a cheap motel. If you want my attention send me a nice detailed note about yourself and your desires. Send a picture or have one on your profile, or don't waste my time. I am also not interested in joining everyone's network. Those that are in my network are those I am interested in meeting with. Hugs N

My Ideal Person I am looking for fun people who like to go out to clubs such as Oxwood in Van Nuys, or clubs in Vegas. I prefer Older men, but you young guys might be fun LOL. A fun couple that wants a little extra should consider having a fun sexy a fully functional CD for an evening toy.

Also, I have this role play fantasy; I show up at your place as a maid for hire. I am wearing a very short skirt, stockings and garter, and I proceed to clean up as you watch. But of course you can not resist your new maid and things happen.

Do you have a role play you would like to act out?