The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. I'm in the mood for a real, substantive relationship. For me a perfect Friday night is relaxing at home.To me, traveling means finding a stimulating companion and making plans as we go. I get along best with people who can talk about something besides sex or sports. I'm not changing my life, I just want to improve it to the tune of one woman. If you contact me remember that I'm looking for a relationship, not just a one-night stand. I look forward to seeing where this leads us.