I am a 29 year old, new mother to a wonderful 7 month old boy. I am married, but polyamorous with other women only. My dynamic is that of the 'Vee' where I have a separate relationship with another woman outside of my marriage. I am Kink friendly. ;) Very open-minded, non-judgmental. I am a Switch and am a "Sapiosexual". I am relatively new to Polyamory. However, I am not interested in dating or being sexual with men other than my husband who is monogamous to me. I am also a regular on Fetlife if you're interested in chatting in real time versus playing message tag. :P [Hobbies]: - I enjoy a broad range of interests in Art, History, and Science. - I am a gamer. - I enjoy anything Anime, and yes..Hentai - I am an Artist - I am currently working on things for my Etsy shop that will be up soon in the next few months. - I enjoy listening to music. - I enjoy staying in occasionally to curl up and watch a movie or two. - Reading/listening to Audiobooks. - Outdoor activities such as hiking, going for walks, biking, swimming, Gardening etc. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Switch 100% Experimental 100% Bondage 96% Sadist 96% Masochist 93% Exhibitionist/Voyeur 89% Degradation 89% Submissive 75% Dominant 75% Vanilla 14% ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Keywords: Kink, Polyamory, Poly, S.S.C, Mt. Pleasant, Iowa

My Ideal Person I am seeking a woman who is serious about developing a relationship.

I would love to find a woman who is interested in a long term relationship (or the potential for one at least), who is interested in the BDSM lifestyle, and has no problem with me being married.

The dynamic I am seeking is the "Vee" with myself being the polyamorous individual holding two separate relationships.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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