We have been married 13 years, and are only interested in playing as a couple. We are down to try anything at least once, as long as the vibe is right. If you aren't truly bi (curious or sexual), then we aren't interested. If your profile says you're straight, but you are actually bi, please include that in your first message - otherwise, you probably won't get a response. Kissing (and someone who's good at it) is a requirement for us. If you have any rules against or hang-ups about kissing both men and women, then we aren't a good fit - move on. We've done full swap with straight couples and have added single bi females/single gay males, but are looking to add more variety. Would be willing to explore with any experience level, but bonus points given if it isn't your first rodeo... We both log in and check messages on the site, so if you are really interested please send a message instead of an IM. Our IM conversations get glitchy when we access the site from multiple devices, and we've have conversations missing pieces or completely deleted.