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Learning Life Lessons...
Learning Life Lessons... Hello Naughty Friends, Boy , does time fly. It is already March and it seems I've been unsuccessful with my Blog return. Life has been throwing me a lot of curve balls. Some good and some bad however I have been learning a lot of life lessons. For the last couple of months I've been helping take care of my Aunt. Her cancer spread and it had been very overwhelming and stressful. When my mother past away I learned empathy. With my Aunt I am learning patience. These are two qualities I did not have in my earlier years. At least I'm gaining knowledge so that is a positive. Two years ago after my accident I decided to try retire from the restaurant business. After 20 plus years of waiting tables and bartending I decided to take the chance and start my own business. A lot of up and downs, but I loved it. It was refreshing not to have to follow corporate policies and only have to answer to myself . Sad to say I failed. I had to suck up my pride and now I'm back to waiting tables. My worst nightmare. Pretending I like people. I am going to be that seventy year old lady who is serving you pancakes. I am never going to be able to retire. That has been a hard pill to swallow. On the bright side. The money is good and interacting with people has helped my anxiety and depression. I'm hoping to blog more but to be quite honest I haven't had the desire. I've always used this format as a escape. I love my blogging community. I've been very disappointed in peoples ( bloggers ) behavior. It is not a competition. This is not real life. It is not that fucking serious. I just wanted to drop by and say HI. I hope everyone is doing well. It is not that hard to be kind to eachother. Happy Moan day to ya!! |
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I do not expect a lot of responses, but I miss my blogging community.
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Glad to see the post. I have to admit every time I see you online I jump over to my watched blogs to see if you're posting something new. Your posts always make me smile. Have a great day, even if you're serving some schlub pancakes. It's far better of a day than many are having. Tom
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Oh my friend I am so sorry to hear about your aunt my friend... You know I was in the waitress industry for a while myself and bartended for over twenty years best job I ever had. As I am a people person, I am so glad to hear it's helping you with your depression. And hun I agree with you about blog land, as we feel the same way, it's not a competition, and it's not a place for jealousy either. I wish you all the success in the world my friend and I am keeping you and your aunt in my prayers hun..take care..
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Happy moan day to you. Your picture look great. Glad to see you blog. Missed you in February. Yes there is a hateful, conceited blogger on here and I suppose some people support them. Hopefully we can make them disappear. Take care of yourself.
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3/2/2020 10:47 am |
Hello my lovely friend. It is good to see you once more. I hope that all goes well with your aunt and for yourself as well. Beautiful pics to my friend. Have a wonderful Monday. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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Sorry to hear about your struggles of late, cancer sucks and i feel for you and your aunt. Also sorry to hear about the loss of your business, waiting tables can be a stepping stone to something better. Many businesses fail on their first attempt so perhaps you can try again. Good luck to you in whatever you do.
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I'm sorry to hear about your troubles.. I hope that things improve, and I'll keep you and your Aunt in my thoughts...
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3/2/2020 3:01 pm |
sorry things have been tough, but I would love to get to know you. You are simply gorgeous....love that pretty face and gorgeous body....
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3/2/2020 3:04 pm |
Hey beautiful. I'm sorry to hear of your troubles. Please let me know if I can be of support x
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Good to see you here. You did your best running your own business and I can empathise with you. I had to give up the shop because the rent was too high, although I still help out the new owner. I'm sorry to hear about your aunt. I was a carer for my mother and yes, that was very stressful at times.
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very lovely pics sweetie hang in there {=}
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Nice to see you Hottie . . have missed those bright, smiling, alluring eyes. Have been though the caregiver to dying person scenario too, and it's tough. "At least I'm gaining knowledge so that is a positive" Yeah, that was my takeaway too and it's of some consolation.
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Glad to see you here. Sorry about the downs but without them we wouldn't know how nice the good times are. Empathy and patience are exceptional virtues. Many a person needs much more of them. Keeping you in my thoughts my friend.
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Trust all is okay with you.... Take care young lady....
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Jeanie, you are a wonderful lady. Life has its ways to make one think they are not where you should be. It is a journey, don't give up. Don't give up on your dreams there are more opportunities out there. Wished I could show you how you can retire with dignity. It is very feasible and you don't have to depend on anyone but your talents. Every successful individual many setbacks.
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Keep working hard and your dreams will come true. You a beautiful woman both inside and out.
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Big hug, things will get better, it takes time and patience but I believe things always turn around. Blog for you and what it brings you, don't let a bully control something that gives you an escape.
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Hottie....i missed you !! Im lifting you and your aunt up in prayers...prayer for calmness of spirit. IF your business is an enjoyable one.....can you do it part time...on the side as a side hustle? That way you will still be earning an income from your other job but still doing something personal for you. I know it will be crazy fitting in the caregiving aspect too tho. That in itself requires emotional stamina. Been there done that. You crack me up @ " pretending i like people"... THAT is draining too....lol I wish people heeded the notion of , " if ya cant say something nice, say nothing at all." In a world where we can be many things....choose to be kind. Thinking of you gurl ~~
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Hi Jeannie, I adore you because you are incredibly caring and thoughtful, which makes you such a beautiful woman to me. And of course I love your eyes! I hate it when disrespectful people invade the blogs! Take care and I wish you the best always! Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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darn darn darn..............I go into withdrawal when I do not see you........then when I do see you mmmmmmmmmm..........very nice
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goood to hear from you and see you again.
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You look great! Welcome back and good luck. Ted
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Good morning sunshine hope your day is as beautiful as you. Sorry for your lost your s good woman to take time out of your life for someone else. Sorry your business didn't work out you tryed that's better then most. Your working that better then many You are blessed in many ways The smile on your face makes me happy today. Xoxoxo Thomas
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would not mind being served food by you, know that cancer is bad having lost grandmother and grandfather, have seen also how someone loses their memory and passes away
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Thanks for the update, I was wondering if all was OK. Seems like you are going through a lot. If you ever need to talk I am always here. You should be proud of yourself for taking the chance to start your own business, success or not, you stepped out and did it and that takes a lot of courage. I am sorry to hear about your Aunt, it's always hard caring for someone you love that is struggling through a disease. Prayers for her and you. Blog and you can as I enjoy your blog and pictures. It's about a release for sure. Don't worry about all those nay sayers. They just have nothing better to do. Write me anytime Hotmamamm! Cheers!
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Love you baby!!
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Love your blog ( and you) so natural so real Please give my blog a look and drop me a line there, id love that!
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3/3/2020 8:17 am |
Your still an amazing lady Hug
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Sorry to hear of some of the issues you have been through. Hang in there!! I have known you for a long time from being on this site. You will prevail and you are so pretty!! I am going through rough patch too, medically. Be well and be strong!!
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I do not expect a lot of responses, but I miss my blogging community.
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I do not expect a lot of responses, but I miss my blogging community.
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3/3/2020 4:50 pm |
Thank you for sharing that story, it was touching and inspiring.
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Always miss you as well. ...
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Nice to see you Jeanie It's always good to see you blog no matter what it's about. Beautiful pictures added and stay strong beautiful your worth it. Have a great day 😍
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glad to see you back and ok.....sorry to hear about your aunt, be strong and hold on to that dream..it will come true ....take care
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Hey beautiful friend! I'm so sorry to hear about your situation and hope sincerely that your life will improve. The prospect of not being able to retire is daunting. I know. I'm in the same boat. I am sending you lots of positive thoughts and energy.
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I applaud anyone with the confidence to be self-employed. Whether it works out or not, it takes more guts to make that leap than most people realize. As for your current occupation, there is dignity in all work. I am not following my preferred career path either. I have to remind myself, frequently, that WHAT I DO is not WHO I AM. And, to do it while you are caring for a relative, and dealing with your own anxiety.....that is the definition of STRENGTH. I hope to see you return to your blogging soon.
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i am always here, hugs for you
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Wonderful to see you blogging again. Sorry to hear 2020 has been rough on you. My 2020 is off to a less than desirable start as well. Misery likes company, if you'd like to chat, feel free to IM me. Take care and keep smiling!
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Queen Janeane, You are a very awesome person. Sorry to hear about mom/aunt and their health and passing. Sorry to hear about the business and the return to employment. Sorry to hear about the relationship woes and your own health concerns. But through it all you still stand. You still stand strong and draw power and positive energy. You still stand for integrity and compassion among all. You still stand and smile with hope and prosperity You are a very awesome person, kinky and naughty and sexy
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uff que mujer mas ardiente, mas maduritas son rebuenas
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Sorry to read about your troubles and I hope you can continue to find the strength to help you keep hold of that positive outlook and to help you get through the struggles that life keeps presenting. You seem like a lovely person with a good kind heart. How nice! Good luck!
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3/10/2020 4:43 am |
Life is a struggle at Times attitude is everything...Love to see your Beautiful smile!
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you ll overcome yr hard time. Meanwhile keep blogging and having fun when possible.
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Jeannie I truly understand what you are expressing in this post and I value your being so forthright. Sometimes writing helps defray the intensity of the temporary irritations and draining circumstances. I will never tell someone that things like this make one stronger cause it is not always so. Thank you for sharing with me. I will support you in any way I am able- just reach out and tell me HUGS a lot of them (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Nice pics. Pretty lady
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3/17/2020 10:27 am |
When YU are in Our T/-/oug/-/t*z, YU are in Our Prayer*z Everything YU seek for are within YU already YU draw on this Power when YU Contemplate Who YU are. YU are more than YU Know ,,, Much More !
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Good luck to you! Lots of tough times out there right now. Hope you're doing OK.
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We all dream to be financially free, hotmamammm. Some of us make it, others don't. The dream of that teaches us life lessons along the way - great to hear from a kind generous one like yours. Love reading your blog as always
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3/21/2020 7:20 pm |
You have really beautiful eyes!
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Good to see you, I just love the quality of your photos, they are outstanding, not just the content !!! Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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Hope you're dong well in the current climate!
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hope you have had an improved end of the month? And April brings a pleasant surprise for you? Stay safe and sexy
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touching poost
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crazy world lately...stay safe pretty lady...
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3/26/2020 11:46 am |
pretty!
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3/26/2020 2:01 pm |
MMMMMMMM
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3/27/2020 9:35 am |
Running a business has it's ups and downs you learn a lot from failure and just apply it to your next venture.
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3/29/2020 3:13 pm |
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4/6/2020 7:55 pm |
Benjamin Fulford. Go find/read now as soon as YU can. ][t is important. Please.
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I do not expect a lot of responses, but I miss my blogging community.
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4/11/2020 1:20 pm |
Be patient ,,, ,,, \/\ot a Patient ! ]]-[[aPPy Easter
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mmmm u sweet tight thing how u been
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4/17/2020 12:05 am |
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why not monetize your writing / blog?
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Hey Jeanie. Hope you're staying positive and everything is awesome in your world. We are missing you here. xoxo Tom
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new to your blog, just take your time as one who has lost him mother to cancer I can feel your pain. cant wait to hear more from you on here
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So nice to see you here again. Hang in there and keep on learning life's lessons. Do not give up on your dream of being your own boss. Take more chances. People that play the lottery don't buy one ticket in their lifetime. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Aunt. Be safe
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Keep on fighting the good fight. As a sufferer of depression and anxiety I realize feel difficult it must be to do something you did not want to be doing. Just hold on and I hope things get better. I am certainly sending you good vibes. Also, do not care about the others and the competition they bring. This is something I am trying to get better at. I started meditation which seems to help me a bit.
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6/29/2020 12:24 pm |
You’re a gorgeous woman wow!!!!!
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damn you're easy on the eyes. always nice to see you. wishing you well
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Miss your face so thought id stop by and say hi. hope you're well
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....hope that life's curveballs are getting easier.... some day hope to see your return to blogland......carpe diem....
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1 post 9/30/2020 2:12 pm |
it seems like since covid hit, people's kindness has gone out the window. It's truly sad to be living in these worried times!!!
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12/13/2020 3:47 am |
you are such a beautiful woman. Inside and out. I love your caring smile, sparkle in those big inviting eyes and a gorgeous figure. With a brain that makes you even Sevier. Sorry to hear about your failed business but glad you learned from your mistakes. If given another chance I think you should try it again taking what you learned. You are a very sexy woman and would love it if you hmu sometime. Later for now and hope your dreams get fulfilled even if they are only the wet ones.
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Incredible beauty!
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Incredible beauty
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3/15/2021 1:03 pm |
It is sooooo good to see you again my friend. Great pics. I want to take you into the fiery lair of steamy sexual delight on this hot sultry night.
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Wonderful to hear from you!! We have been missing you here, so please drop a line here ( or even better: in private) every now and then to let us know kisses n hugs!
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...fake it til you make it.... so, a year later since this post....perhaps it's time to drop in and update your viewing audience on the comings and goings in your adventures... ...in the meantime, always enjoy your gorgeous smile... hopefully that's real.... ....carpe diem....
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3/26/2021 3:33 am |
whaouh so sexy and naughty ! you are so gorgeous Take care hummmm
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You are Gorgeous!
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Welcum back! You have had a bit of a rough go but I'm glad you are able to bounce back. So sorry your enterprise had to fold. You are as beautiful as ever and I look forward to more blogs. Take care of YOU! Gentle hugs
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